Winter Contemplative Shabbat Retreat

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Posted on 16th July 2010 by zvi in Programs

Contemplative Shabbat Retreat

with Rabbi Jacob Staub and Dr. Zvi Bellin

Pealstone Retreat Center, Baltimore, Maryland

December 10 – 12, 2010

Have you ever wondered how you can bring more relaxation, joy, and personal fulfillment into your life? Without having to be a Buddhist or a Yogi! Meditation and awareness practices are for Jews, too, and can support an authentic Jewish practice. Rabbi Jacob and Zvi will be facilitating a full Shabbat experience at Pearlstone Retreat Center near Baltimore, MD. You will learn valuable practices for your well-being and spiritual toolbox that will allow you to decrease stress, enhance body-heart-mind flexibility, and live more authentically.   There will be instruction in Jewish-inspired meditation and Yoga, contemplative prayer services and delicious Kosher Shabbat meals, individual psycho-spiritual counseling and exploration of other research- informed awareness practices. The weekend will be held in gentle silence to allow retreatants to enter into a deep inner space of personal awareness. (If you just thought, “I could never do that,” then this Shabbat is especially for you.)

Is this for me?: This retreat program is geared towards Jewish and Jewish-interested people of all ages. No prior meditation experience needed; no familiarity with traditional Jewish practice. You should come with a curiosity to learn more about yourself through Jewish practice with a contemplative emphasis.

About the Tefilah Services (Prayer): The prayer services at this retreat will follow the elemental flow of traditional services, though the liturgy will not be fully traditional nor completely read. Each service will be crafted to add to the experience of the weekend — a deepening inward for greater personal awareness. Thus, the services will include ample silence, chanting, verbal kavvanot (guided intentions), and contemplation of individual lines and verses. It will be intended that, should individuals choose to do so, they can pray the full liturgy to themselves as they sit in the room with the whole minyan. The Torah service will include three Aliyot, in which whoever would like can come up for a group blessing. If you have specific questions about the services please email: zvilove@gmail.com .

Program Cost: In order to make the retreat affordable, participants are only required to pay the fee of room and board. This cost is $159. At the completion of the retreat, participants will be asked to donate to the teachers. The cost of the retreat includes two nights lodging in hotel style rooms with private baths (three people per room), five delicious kosher meals, a complete weekend workshop series including meditation, contemplative services, and Yoga instruction, and an individual psycho-spiritual session with Rabbi Jacob Staub or Dr. Zvi Bellin.

Registration Information and Location: REGISTRATION FOR THIS RETREAT IS LIMITED TO 30 PARTICIPANTS. Please email zvilove@gmail.com to receive your registration form. Payment information will be given at this time. The retreat will be held just outside of Baltimore, MD at the Pearlstone Retreat Center (www.pearlstonecenter.org) 5425 Mount Gilead Rd, Reisterstown, MD 21136-4110, (410) 429-4400

TENTATIVE SCHEDULE:

FRIDAY, Dec 10th

Arrival and Check In (Snacks available) – 2:00 – 4:00 p.m.

Prepare for Shabbat – 4:00 – 4:30 p.m.

Candle lighting and the Logistics of Silence – 4:30 – 5:30 p.m.

Kabbalat Shabbat and Ma’ariv – 5:30 – 7:00 p.m.

Shabbat Dinner – 7:15 – 8:30 p.m.

Stories, Chanting, and D’var Torah – 8:45 – 10:00 p.m. (Lailah Tov)

SATURDAY, Dec 11th

Early Morning Sit – 7:00 – 8:00 a.m.

Gentle Yoga – 8:00 – 8:45 a.m.

Contemplative Shacharit and Torah Service – 9:00 a.m. – 11:30 a.m.

Shabbat Lunch – 11:30 – 12:30 p.m.

Afternoon Practice – 12:45 – 3:30 p.m. (Sitting and Movement Meditation, Q and A period)

Shabbas Menuhah/Rest (Snacks available) – 3:30 – 4:30 p.m. (Individual Sessions)

Shabbat Mincha Practice – 4:30 – 5:00 p.m.

Third Meal/Dinner – 5:00 – 6:15 p.m.

Ma’ariv and Havdalah – 6:30 – 7:00pm

Evening Practice – 7:15 – 8:30 p.m. (Sitting Meditation, Dynamic Breath Meditation)

Night Program – 8:45 p.m. (Yoga practice and Special Topic Talk: “Hen, Hesed, Ve-Rahamim: Cultivating Self Compassion, Receiving Divine Compassion”)

SUNDAY, Dec 12th

Early Morning Sit – 6:00 – 7:00 a.m.

Flow Yoga – 7:00 – 8:15am

Breakfast – 8:15 – 9:00 a.m. (Individual Sessions)

Contemplative Shacharit – 9:00 – 10:30am

Transitioning back to the “Real World” – 10:30 – 11:00 a.m.

SAFE TRAVELS AND MANY BLESSINGS!

FACILITATOR BIO:

Rabbi Jacob Staub is Professor of Jewish Philosophy and Spirituality at the Reconstructionist Rabbinical College, where he teaches Jewish Meditation and Jewish Contemplative Practice and where he directs the program in Jewish Spiritual Direction.  He has studied and practiced Jewish Mindfulness with his mentor, Dr. Sylvia Boorstein, and with Rabbis Sheila Weinberg and Jeff Roth.  He is the co-author of Exploring Judaism: A Reconstructionist Approach and has written extensively on Jewish belief and practice.

Dr. Zvi Bellin holds a Ph.D. in Pastoral Counseling and is a licensed therapist in Maryland and DC. Zvi directs intimate retreats for the Jewish community that are both spiritually uplifting and intellectually stimulating.  His teaching style follows the tradition of blending Torah study with contemplative Jewish practice. Zvi has studied extensively with teachers spanning various Jewish denominations, including, Rabbi David Zeller, Miriam Ribner, Rabbi Zvi Miller, and Rabbi Jeff Roth.

Please contact zvilove@gmail.com with any questions or concerns.

This program is endorsed by The Awakened Heart ProjectNehirim: GLBT Jewish Culture and Spirituality, and the Moishe House.  We thank them.

Fall2010 Queer TeleMidrash

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Posted on 2nd July 2010 by zvi in Programs

Queer PsychoSpiritual Tele-Midrash

Fall 2010 Semester

Engage in an intimate community experience that fosters personal growth on your life path. Encounter sacred Hebrew texts with depth and reflection to learn about yourself, your world, and your relationship with the Divine. The tele-midrash will meet via conference call twice a month to review and discuss a pre-determined text. In addition to the full community call, participants will be paired into spirit buddies to learn together via specified guiding questions that relate to the texts. Participants will also be offered a one-on-one session with the tele-midrash facilitator to help tailor the program to their individual needs.

Who can register?

This study group is open to GLBTQ people who are interested in Judaism as a spiritual path. This group is limited to only 10 participants.

How to register?

Interested participants should contact zvilove@gmail.com in order to receive a short registration form. Registration forms are due on August 16, 2010.

Program Costs

The complete tele-midrash program cost is based on a sliding scale fee between $150 – $250 per participant. This cost includes participation in 9 tele-midrash community calls over a 4-month period and a 1-hour private phone session with the tele-midrash facilitator. Additional individual sessions can be scheduled at a rate of $50 per hour.

Program Dates (subject to change)

Calls will be held bimonthly on Wednesdays from 8 – 9:30pm EST  beginning on September 1st. Subsequent dates are: 9/15, 9/28*, 10/13, 10/27, 11/10, 11/24, 12/8, and 12/22. (*Tuesday evening)

Tele-Midrash Facilitator Bio

Dr. Zvi Bellin holds a Ph.D. in Pastoral Counseling and is a licensed therapist in Maryland and DC. Through his work with Nehirim: GLBT Jewish Culture and Spirituality, Zvi has directed intimate retreats for the GLBTQ Jewish community that are both spiritually uplifting and intellectually stimulating.  His teaching style follows the tradition of blending Torah study with contemplative Jewish practice. Zvi has studied extensively with teachers spanning various Jewish denominations, including, Rabbi David Zeller, Miriam Ribner, Rabbi Zvi Miller, and Rabbi Jeff Roth.

Tele-Midrash Participant Testimony
“I look forward to learning every week …. Many of the things I learn stay with me throughout the week. It has been fantastic for me to hear people’s interpretations of what we are learning at any particular time. I would love to have the opportunity to continue this studying.” – SG

Personal Reflection on the Contemplative Shabbaton (May 7th – 10th, 2010)

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Posted on 10th May 2010 by zvi in Uncategorized

May 10, 2010

Dear Friends,

This past weekend I lead my first contemplative meditation Shabbat retreat. It was a great accomplishment for me as it was a way for me to piece together all the many skills and tools that I have picked up on my 30 year journey on this planet. The retreat was held at the Pearlstone Retreat Center outside of Baltimore, MD. It is a beautiful location, with brand new and attractive meeting spaces, great exposure to the natural world, and delicious kosher food. The staff was extremely helpful and made the logistics of retreat leadership very easy.

This retreat was tailored for a small intimate group experience of about 20 individuals who were involved in Judaism and contemplative work in varying degrees. We began with an orientation and basic instruction to meditation. The logistics of silence were discussed and the group held a “soft social silence” from Shabbat candle lighting on Friday evening until 11am Sunday morning. For this practice of silence, participants refrained from speaking to one another and other people who were at the center.  The intention of the silence is to allow individuals to pay more attention to their internal world and mind-states, rather than offering so much energy to social interaction. The weekend consisted of a series of workshops and activities including creative and contemplative prayer services, group-blessing readings from the Torah, sitting and walking meditation, a group movement practice based on Authentic Movement, classic Vinyasa Yoga classes, and a dynamic breath workshop based on the Rebirthing Technique. The retreat provided a balance between silence and beautiful chanting and niggun singing. We also shared in a practice of intentional speech.

During the retreat I gave two Divrei Torah that were connected to practice. The first was about the Five Hindrances that can “get in the way” of concentration and awareness. In Israel I learned about these five mind-states as the Five Guests. I appreciated this new perspective as it relates to the Jewish value of Hachnasat Orchim (Taking in Guests). Thus, I explained how we can move from understanding these distracting mind-states as valuable states to witness. They then can be transformed from hindrances to orchim (guests) to orachot (pathways) for exploring how one’s mind operates. The second talk was entitled, “Personal Meaning through Jewish Living.” The topic grew out of my dissertation study and first explored the difference and relationship between meaning through doing and meaning through being. I wanted to address the question, how does the Jewish tradition help me to affirm my sense of aliveness in the world? I offered a few answers to this question from both the doing and being sides of Judaism and came to the conclusion that it would be valuable to collect metaphors and references to being connectivity in Jewish liturgy and texts to understand more deeply the Jewish pathway to meaning through being. An example of such a reference would be from the Lecha Dodi prayer – “HiToreri Hitoreri,” which calls to us to, “Wake up! Wake up!”

During the retreat we created an environment for public Shabbat observance. Pearlstone’ss campus is surrounded by an Eruv, which halachically allows individuals to carry items through public space. The group refrained from using musical instruments, meditation chimes, or electricity during Shabbat in public spaces. As a result the meditation sessions were book-ended with sweet nigunnim or various chantings of the word Shalom.  This was an important aspect of the retreat, because the traditional practice of Shabbat itself can be seen as a practice of greater mindfulness, with one’s attention drawn away from a quality of busy-ness and re-focused on Divine connection and personal spirituality.

In addition to the group work and practice, I offerred the particitpants 15-minute individual sessions to check in with me about their experience on retreat in the context of where they are at in their life. In these sessions clients were able to bring up personal issues that have been coming up as they work on cultivating mindfulness. In a way, I was introduced to the “personal guests” that were visiting them on this retreat. My way of being with the pariticpants in the individual sessions was mostly to listen and affirm their experience. At times, I would gently offer an insight as a suggestion for how they might approach a particular issue or problem that was brought up. The insights generally were guiding posts back to the practice of noticing moment-to-moment. The sessions allowed me to connect more deeply with the pariticpants on retreat. They allowed me to gauge if anyone needed any extra attending to by allowing them to express their psycho-spiritual status while on retreat. I approached the time with the participants as a mindful guide or space-holder.

I believe the retreat proved to be a huge success. I measure this by the following criteria:

1.I managed to get at least the number of pariticipants that I aimed for (18 people).

2.Our group held silence respectfully throughout the specified time.

3.We moved through a diverse and dynamic schedule while maintaining a focus on general pracitce to stay attuned from moment-to-moment.

4.Their seemed to be a sense of group support and compassion at the close of the retreat.

5.The participants shared the following positive feedback:

“The Contemplative Shabbat Retreat for Young Jewish Professionals brought me a great deal of inner peace through mindful meditative workshops. The opportunity brought together an intimate group of like-minded Jews who carved out time for personal work. As we sat in social silence for the weekend, we were taught life skills for stress-reduction, concentration, and strengthening the presence of our highest selves under the lens of Judaic tradition.” – S.K.

“Thank you for the wonderful retreat, Zvi. It was very powerful and beautiful and I am in a great space. Please keep me updated on future events. I loved the chanting /singing, the movement, the breathwork, the meditating, the intentional speaking, your facilitation method, the silent meals and all the instruction you gave.” – M.G.

I also noticed a few areas for personal growth in retreat leadership that I would like to work on:

1.I had one participant who joined in the retreat late for a short amount of time and I personally found his presence to be disruptive. He had not received the proper orientation to the environment that we created and I noticed his impact on other participants to be unsettling.

2.We shared the space with another group which was much larger than us and energetically opposite. I prepared the participants for this and we managed to have our own space for practice and eating. Overall I do not think it effected personal experience to much, though I noticed myself getting frustrated when I imagined that the larger group was getting better service and attention from the Center’s staff then us. I admit this was a judgment, perhaps correct, perhaps not, though I think having our own space would have been better, and I was able to practice attending to my own stories as the facilitator.

3.Lastly, I noticed feeling negative about my performace after a particularly intense breath pracitce session. There was energietic and emotional outpouring taking place. I know that I handled the facilitation safely and managed the after-effects by being available and tending to the energy and emotons of certain participants. What I noticed from this was that I became concerned about my performance when I thought the pariticipants were having a “bad” time.

In the end, I was very satisfied with the retreat. I am glad that I stepped up to this challenge with commitment from start to finish. I am greatful to a number of individuals who helped me to retain this commitment. My plan is to continue in retreat facilitation in a similar fashion. I am interested in holding retreats with varying degrees of Halachic observance to make them more accessible to all types of Jews and Jewish interested people.

Sincerely,

Zvi

Jewish Journey to Revelation in 4 Acts

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Posted on 27th April 2010 by zvi in Programs

On May 10 @ 7pm, Zvi will be leading a special pre-Shavuot workshop at Beth Chayim Chadashim in Los Angeles, CA.

Please click here for the full evening description:
http://www.bcc-la.org/content/?p=1483

The cost is FREE!

Sponsored by the BCC-LA synagogue.

Awesome Price for an Enriching Experience

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Posted on 12th April 2010 by zvi in Programs

I am still so high from everything that happened [at the retreat], and I am incredibly grateful for such a healing weekend.  I needed this past weekend so badly, and it was everything and more that I could have hoped it would be.  I have not been myself for months, and finally, this weekend, and now, I am feeling like ME again!” – Alyssa, Retreat Participant

Hi friends.

I know times are rough with money AND I know how crucial taking time for yourself is for balance and well-being. SO, I would like to offer a crazy reduced price for my Contemplative Shabbat retreat if you register before Friday, April 16th. The cost is the bare minimum that I can charge, it is the same cost I have to pay. It will cover the room and board for the weekend, 5 delicious kosher meals, round the clock snacks/tea/coffee, and space rental. On top of that at no initial cost is a complete Shabbat program that integrates progressive Jewish practice with meditation, Yoga, psycho-spiritual research, bliss enhancing and relaxation techniques. You will leave feeling renewed and inspired to engage more fully with your life journey.

For all of this you pay only $131 total.

**As a way to support the work of organizing and teaching you will be asked to make a donation based on what you can offer after the retreat.**

Please see the full retreat details at, http://www.meaningthroughbeing.com/2010/02/contemplative-shabbat-practice-for-young-jewish-professionals/

Register TODAY by emailing zvilove@gmail.com .

Zvi to Direct Nehirim East 2010

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Posted on 4th March 2010 by zvi in Programs

On June 3 – 6, 2010 Zvi will direct the largest and longest running retreat that Nehirim:GLBT Jewish Culture and Spirituality produces annually. Details are availabe at www.nehirim.org/east . Scholarships are avaialable for those who apply online.

Faculty for this year’s retreat will include: Jay Michaelson, Rabbi Alissa Wise, Eerz Harari, Rabbi Joel Alter and Ilana Kramer. Nehirim East features uplifting prayer services, dynamic workshops, delicious food, and a supportive community — all on the grounds of the beautiful Isabella Freedman Retreat Center.

Contemplative Shabbat Retreat for Young Jewish Professionals

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Posted on 26th February 2010 by zvi in Programs

REGISTRATION IS OPEN!

May 7th – May 9th, 2010

REGISTER BY APRIL 16TH AND PAY ONLY $131

Email, zvilove@gmail.com TODAY.

Have you ever wondered how you can bring more relaxation, joy, and personal fulfillment into your life? Without having to be Zen, Buddhist, or a Yogi! Meditation and awareness practices are for Jews too and can support an authentic Jewish practice. Zvi  will be facilitating a full Shabbat experience at Pearlstone Retreat Center near Baltimore, MD. You will learn valuable practices for your well-being and spiritual toolbox that will allow you to decrease stress, enhance body-heart-mind flexibility, and live more authentically.   There will be instruction in Jewish inspired meditation and Yoga, contemplative prayer services and delicious Kosher Shabbat meals, individual psycho-spiritual counseling and exploration of other research- informed awareness practices. The weekend will be held in social silence to allow retreatents to enter into a deep inner space of personal awareness. (If you just thought, “I could never do that,” then this Shabbat is especially for you.)

Is this for me?: This retreat program is geared towards Jewish and Jewish-interested people from 20 – 40 years old. It is for graduate students, Hill staffers, coffee house bloggers, social justice activists and free floaters, etc …

About the Tefilah Services (Prayer): The prayer services at this retreat will follow the elemental flow of traditional services, though the liturgy will not be fully traditional nor completely read. Each service will be crafted to add to the experience of the weekend — a deepening inward for greater personal awareness. Thus,the services will include ample silence, chanting, verbal kavvanot (intentions), and verse contemplation. It will be intended that an individual can pray the full liturgy to themselves as they sit in the room with the whole minyan. The Torah service will follow the Renewal style of 3 Aliyot where whoever would like can come up for a group blessing. If you have specific questions about the services please email: zvilove@gmail.com .

Program Cost: The entire weekend costs $231 per participant. This includes 2-nights lodging in dormitory style type rooms, 5 delicious kosher meals, a complete weekend workshop series including meditation, contemplative services, and Yoga instruction, and an individual psycho-spiritual session with Dr. Zvi Bellin.

Registration Information and Location: Please email zvilove@gmail.com to receive your registration form. The retreat will be held just outside of Baltimore, MD at the Pearlstone Retreat Center (www.pearlstonecenter.org) 5425 Mount Gilead Rd, Reisterstown, MD 21136-4110.

(410) 429-4400

TENTATIVE SCHEDULE:

FRIDAY, MAY 7TH

Arrival and Check In (Snacks available) – 3 – 4:30pm

Meditation Instruction – 4:30 – 5:30pm

Prepare for Shabbat – 5:30 – 6:30pm (Individual Sessions)

Candle lighting and the Logistics of Silence – 6:30 – 7pm

Kabbalat Shabbat and Ma’ariv – 7 – 8pm

Shabbat Dinner – 8 – 9:15pm

Stories, Chanting, and D’var Torah – 9:30pm – 10:30pm (Lailah Tov)

SATURDAY, MAY 8TH

Early Morning Sit – 7 – 8am

Gentle Yoga – 8 – 9am

MediTEAtion (Light breakfast served) – 9 – 9:30am (Individual Sessions)

Contemplative Shacharit and Torah Service – 9:30 – 12pm

Shabbat Lunch – 12 – 1pm

Afternoon Practice – 1 – 4pm (Sitting Meditation, Movement Meditation, Q and A period)

Shabbas Shluff (Snacks available) – 4 – 5:30pm (Individual Sessions)

Shabbat Mincha Practice – 5:30 – 6pm

Third Meal/Dinner – 6 – 7pm

Evening Pracitce – 7 – 9pm (Sitting Meditation, Dynamic Breath Meditation)

Ma’ariv and Havdalah – 9 – 9:30pm

Night Program – 9:30pm (Yoga practice and Special Topic Talk: Cultivating Personal Meaning in Jewish Living)

SUNDAY, MAY 9TH

Early Morning Sit – 6 – 7am

Flow Yoga – 7 – 8:15am

Breakfast – 8:15 – 9am (Individual Sessions)

Contemplative Shacharit – 9 – 10:30am

Transitioning back to the “Real World” – 10:30 – 11am

SAFE TRAVELS AND MANY BLESSINGS!

FACILITATOR BIO:

Dr. Zvi Bellin holds a Ph.D. in Pastoral Counseling and is a licensed therapist in Maryland and DC. Zvi directs intimate retreats for the  Jewish community that are both spiritually uplifting and intellectually stimulating.  His teaching style follows the tradition of blending Torah study with contemplative Jewish practice. Zvi has studied extensively with teachers spanning various Jewish denominations, including, Rabbi David Zeller, Miriam Ribner, Rabbi Zvi Miller, and Rabbi Jeff Roth.

Please contact zvilove@gmail.com with any questions or concerns.

This program is gratefully being endorsed by The Awakened Heart Project, Nehirim: GLBT Jewish Culture and Spirituality, and the Moishe House.

Queer Psycho-Spiritual Tele-Midrash

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Posted on 25th February 2010 by zvi in Programs

Spring/Summer 2010 Semester

Engage in an intimate community experience that fosters personal growth on your life path. Encounter sacred Hebrew texts with depth and reflection to learn about yourself, your world, and your relationship with the Divine. The tele-midrash will meet via conference call twice a month to review and discuss a pre-determined text. In addition to the full community call, participants will be paired into spirit buddies to learn together via specified guiding questions that relate to the texts. Participants will also be offered a one-on-one session with the tele-midrash facilitator to help tailor the program to their individual needs.

Who can register?

This study group is open to GLBTQ people who are interested in Judaism as a spiritual path. This group is limited to only 10 participants.

How to register?

Interested participants should contact zvilove@gmail.com in order to receive a short registration form. Registration forms are due on FEBRUARY 21, 2010.

Program Costs

The complete tele-midrash program cost is based on a sliding scale fee between $150 – $250 per participant. This cost includes participation in 10 tele-midrash community calls over a 5-month period and a 1-hour private phone session with the tele-midrash facilitator. Additional individual sessions can be scheduled at a rate of $50 per hour.

Program Dates (subject to change)

Calls will be held bimonthly on Wednesdays from 8 – 9:30pm beginning on March 10th. Subsequent dates are: 3/24, 4/7, 4/21, 5/5, 5/26, 6/9, 6/23, 7/7, and 7/14. Please ensure availability prior to registration.

Tele-Midrash Facilitator Bio

Dr. Zvi Bellin holds a Ph.D. in Pastoral Counseling and is a licensed therapist in Maryland and DC. Through his work with Nehirim: GLBT Jewish Culture and Spirituality, Zvi has directed intimate retreats for the GLBTQ Jewish community that are both spiritually uplifting and intellectually stimulating.  His teaching style follows the tradition of blending Torah study with contemplative Jewish practice. Zvi has studied extensively with teachers spanning various Jewish denominations, including, Rabbi David Zeller, Miriam Ribner, Rabbi Zvi Miller, and Rabbi Jeff Roth.

Personal Endorsement

“Dr. Zvi Bellin teaches an inspiring Torah that is a unique blend of traditional text study, contemplative practice, and humanistic psychology.  He is a caring, engaging, down-to-earth teacher who brings light and life to Jewish hearts and souls.” – Rabbi Jacob Staub, Reconstructionist Rabbinical College